While your collard greens are already washed, chop them into bite-sized pieces and set aside. This prep work ensures they're ready to go into the pot without delay. Dice the white onion into 1/2-inch pieces, mince the garlic cloves, and prepare the jalapeño peppers by seeding them if you prefer less heat or keeping the seeds for a spicier dish. Having everything prepped and ready (mise en place) means you can focus on building flavor without interruption once the cooking begins.
In a large pot, cook the diced bacon over medium heat for about 10 minutes, stirring occasionally, until it's crispy and has rendered its fat. This fat becomes the flavorful base for the entire dish. Remove the bacon with a slotted spoon and set it aside, leaving the rendered fat in the pot. Add the diced onion and minced jalapeños to the hot fat and sauté for about 5 minutes, stirring frequently, until the onion becomes translucent and the peppers release their aromatic oils. I like to let the onions get slightly golden at the edges because it adds a subtle sweetness that balances the acidity of the vinegar later.
Add the minced garlic and ham cubes to the pot with the sautéed onions and peppers. Cook for just 1 minute, stirring gently, to warm the ham and allow the garlic to bloom without burning. The ham adds a rich, smoky backbone to the broth that develops over the long cooking time, and the brief cooking of garlic here releases its essential oils without letting it become bitter.
Pour in the chicken stock, apple cider vinegar, Worcestershire sauce, honey, and hot sauce to taste. Stir in the red pepper flakes, salt, and black pepper. The vinegar brightens the dish while the honey balances it with subtle sweetness, and the Worcestershire adds umami depth. Add the chopped collard greens from Step 1 and the reserved bacon, stirring everything together until the greens are submerged in the liquid. I've found that submerging the greens fully helps them cook evenly and absorb all those savory flavors.
Cover the pot and bring the liquid to a gentle boil, then reduce the heat to low and simmer. Cook for at least 45 minutes for tender greens with a bit of texture, or up to 3 hours for very soft, silky greens that have absorbed maximum flavor from the broth. The longer cooking time allows the collards to become melt-in-your-mouth tender and lets all the flavors meld together beautifully. Stir occasionally and taste as you go—if you'd like more seasoning or spice, adjust the hot sauce or add a bit more salt and pepper.
Ladle the collard greens into bowls, making sure to include plenty of the flavorful braising liquid (called 'pot liquor' in traditional Southern cooking). This broth is liquid gold and should be served alongside the greens. Taste each serving and adjust seasoning with additional hot sauce, salt, or pepper as desired.